Thank you. I am familiar with much of the advice here and as far as I know W does not know of this site. I did break one of Sand's rules in the midst of my cancer treatment and talked to the one sister of mine that can't keep her mouth shut and word got back to W. Of course with very bad results. Still love my sister though!
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.