H sent me an email on Wednesday to say hi and see how I was doing. He also told me that he paid for our D activity fees for the month of July. I replied back just with a thank you.

So, this morning I received a text from him this morning inviting me to dinner because his sister was in town. I accepted. I am nervous because it's like my first date. And I guess I am confused because Sunday he told me that the counselor said no contact and then he is inviting me a family dinner. They all know that we are separated.

I am going with flow. But I am scared that I don't know how to make conversation with him.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)