In which I'm feeling lost, but will perservere (2)

[Bob723]

Thanks, Bob. I think I'm just really tired, but I hate texts that tell us we’ll talk later. Always make me feel like I'm being sent to the principal.

Only reason what I ask what to call her is I always pause before I write about her on here. Guess I can do the OW as it is definitely EA.

Thanks again, Bob. I've grown to really depend on this board and the feedback I get.

You're welcome, Eirinn. I'm sure you are tired because when we are on an emotional roller coaster like we find ourselves, up to 85% of our energy is taken up by our emotions. Normally, it would only be about 25%. I posted somewhere on this forum (maybe before you joined) about this. I learned about it in a Divorce Support Group I was attending.

My guess was that's why you were asking how to refer to your H's PA "friend." Sadly, I think OW does fit in your sitch.

I, like you, have grown to really depend on this board and the feedback I get. Thank God for this board.

Oh, and Eirinn, please don't be so hard on yourself. I read all your thread since the last time I did and saw your very last post. The "Bad E" at the end I totally disagree with. You were probably just kidding, but in case you were serious, stop that thinking now. I admit, I've thought that about myself, too, but realized it brought me down. You are "Good E" and human. This is all very hard and I think many people on this board with a sitch like yours would be wondering the same thing.

You have been making great progress. Keep it going. Little by little, you'll think less about your H being/not being with the OW. Focus on what you can control. Easier said than done, I know!

Many, many *Hugs* and prayers to you.

P.S. If you want me to post the topic about energy distribution during a time of crisis, let me know.

"Brother" Bob