busting, I'm very sorry that your mum passed away. It's never easy when you lose a parent or a sibling. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
As for your h, it's going to take some time for him to feel comfortable in his own skin before he'll actually talk about some of the things that went on. Give him plenty of time and space. There will come a time when you will be able to have that talk w/him...but please be patient. Okay?
Please continue to post as we would like to see how you and your family are doing. Don't hesitate to ask questions because reconnection is the hardest part of the journey. Sending you much love and plenty of patience shovels today!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
