Sandi has some excellent points, as always! Please read her post very carefully. She is one of the best of the best vets.
(I could use her advice now, too.)
Anyway, could luck, t33. I will say a prayer for you today.
I wish you well.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15