Hi 757, I'm so sorry you are here. I originally posted in infidelity, but moved to MLC recently. I agree with Wet, now probably isn't the time for you to be having R convos with your H. Not while he is still in the 'affair fog.' Affairs are notoriously addictive and the sitch you want to avoid is your H saying he'll end things with OW - but then they don't end - and even worse.
My advice would be to order and read Divorce Remedy asap, and if your H continues his A to follow MWD's advice in the infidelity chapter. I'm sorry to say that most sitches take a good while to work through, but as time goes on the intense pain does pass and you begin to find happiness in life again.
Keep posting and take care....x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
