Any advice on how to proceed? I am optimistic but cautious. He is no longer so mad about what he read... but that doesn't mean he wants to work on the marriage. He has been kind & more his normal self but so far it is like we are friends/roommates w/ no affection/intimacy. So my thoughts are to continue with the plan until he brings up the topic of wanting to work on the relationship. At this point all he has said is he is not so mad anymore. Am I right in letting him approach this topic?
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15