Eirinn, i have been tempering myself with all of this. There are still lots of cold days too where I see her give the dog so much more affection than I or she doesn't even try...so the process will take time. It will take all the patience I have left.
Roiste, thank you for your insight. I have asks wife twice since December if she wanted to go to Mc or ic. Last time was just a week or two ago. She has her reasons for not wanting to go so I will not push it.
Eventually we will need to but for now reconnection is necessary.
Today is going to be a beautiful day here in sw Michigan so I will be thankful for that. We have tons of options for things to do so not sure. I hope we can get to my favorite local brewery for a beer and lunch for my birthday.
I wish you all a safe and fun holiday weekend!!!
Thank you all again for ur support and understanding!
