Hi Gan, thanks for stopping by my thread and good to hear that you are doing so well. Nice that you had dinner with older meet up guy OMUG??

I meant to say that earlier discussions on your thread about responding to potential advances from guys resonated with me. I also find it hard to deal with whether I'm making assumptions. If he asks me out, but I don't have a romantic interest, should I say that. But would that be assuming he does etc??

I'm going to try and be more honest and authentic in this area going forward. No news from H then? Have you now passed the point where either of you could potentially file Gan? Do you plan just to carry on as you are for now....which doesn't sound like a bad plan as I think you are doing well...??

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus