I thought I had lost my post, but no worries cause friends came to the rescue. Prowl, I think I posted to you in Thriver's thread, and Vanilla has kindly united your first post with the last one I sent yesterday.
Hope your nerves will calmer today. I will try to check back in a while.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!