Unanswered posts last thread: following Aged P support of V and disclosing some drunk driving by WH with Aged P in his car. aged Pa is 94 aged Ma is 89 and has dementia.

Originally Posted By: Zelda09
Dearest V,

I get the looking back. I know you are hoping to learn something and find some place for the bewildered thoughts to go. I spend an awful lot of time trying to do the same.

It's like being in a funhouse, looking at all those distorted reflections in the mirror and wondering where the real image is, and how you might see it next time. I think it would be very hard to have been locked in such a 'funhouse' and step into broad daylight and look only forward.

My friends and family, probably like yours, saw that something was 'off' but because we were happy and in love...wanted to support the M.

There is nothing wrong with you, that you didn't see or know, or hear...I promise! The world is full of good people who mind their own business and want to see their loved ones happy.



Originally Posted By: rd500
Hi Vanillia. I get your wanting to know a long time ago but I'm not sure you would have been ready. Only you can judge that I have been amazed at the decline in your H's behaviour since the start. I can some what understand the nasty thoughts because I have had them re my EXW but having thoughts and acting on them are two very different things

Your Pa will always want what's best for his little girl but he has to temper what he says with the information he has and or believes. Your H seemed to be hiding a very dark side and even when glimpses of that side are seen it can be very easy for someone observing to dismiss if behaviour is not consistent

Since you kindly helped me in my sitch I've seen you as a very kind and gentle lady who treats others with respect and love. You gave H every benefit of the doubt. You stood for your M longer than most under the circumstances and I have n doubt you love the man that H was or could have been

Looking back now about time frame or what others thought ( even wonderful
P )'serves no purpose The here and now are all that matters. Vanillia is starting from today , business will get back on track , you are helping other with Abuse thread and others like myself , you GAL like a god and at the end of every day you are Vanillia , you are a very lucky lady and we are all very lucky on here to have got the chance to meet you

Take extra care today special Vanillia Hugs and kisses. Rd



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Last edited by Vanilla; 07/03/15 07:09 AM.
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