Sunday we went to the air soft war and had so much fun. I did way better than I thought I would and my son was so proud of me. My S didn't want my H to play but he was there and cooked out for the entire team, which was very nice.
Monday I spent the day with my sister doing girl stuff and my S and H went spent the day together. My H apologized again to our S and to explain how much stress he had been under when he told us he was "done" and never coming back. Our S told him he was sorry he was stressed out but that's no excuse to take it out on your family and he would have to earn his trust back.I'm so proud of my kid.
Tuesday I had a session with my coach. She gave me some good insight into male depression. She said when men feel depressed it usually shows up in the form of anger and when they feel overly stressed at work and not in control of every situation, they sometimes looked to what they can control...space and their relationship with their spouse.
Looking back over the last year I believe my H has suffered from depression. Then this last job was very stressful with millions of dollars on the line and it all came together for the perfect storm. My coach suggested some books for me to read and we discussed how to start a conversation with my H about going to the doctor some blood work and a check up.
He hates going to the doctor but I had the conversation and he agreed to go. I'm so glad. I just want us both to do everything possible to make our marriage better.
Wed we all went to a movie and today we stayed home and worked in the yard. I worked in my garden which was very relaxing.
In all things are going well. After my H goes to the doctor he said he is willing to look into going to a seminar or a couples session.
