GB,
This is great advice. When the time is right this weekend, I'll have a quick conversation with D4 like you suggested.

Journaling:
STBX dropped off the kids tonight. This was the first time I've seen her in person since last Monday. I went outside to meet them. STBX made a comment about me wearing cool shorts and cool shoes. I kind of laugh and jokingly say that "I guess I'm just a cool dude."

It was a fairly quick exchange. As we began to say goodbye I told her that my sister and her husband were coming over tonight for dinner to see the kids. She briefly asked about their visit and then we exchanged goodbyes.

My sister and her husband came over for dinner. It was a great time together and it was good for them to spend some time with the kids. Plus, I could tell the kids enjoyed it as well.

Been a good couple of days. Knock on wood. Hope it stays that way for a few more.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15