The lunch with my W, mom, and the mortgage lender has been rescheduled for this upcoming Tuesday. However, since my W read my Skype messages, she knows we sort of "planned" it. Or actually... she confirmed that we planned it, because the OW, as anyone who is following my sitch might remember, already created a "them v. you" scenario wherein the three of us would "gang up" on her during this lunch and... I don't know. Make her feel bad? Judge her? Do something "religious?"
In the midst of her angry text messages yesterday, she said, "So what's the deal with this lunch anyway? I'm thinking it's some kind of intervention, and if so, you are mistaken to think I will fall prey to that."
An intervention? Oh boy. All we are going to do is eat Mexican food and drink margaritas. Maybe talk about baptism (since my mom is my W's godmother and the mortgage lender was baptized as an adult, just like my W three months ago). Maybe let the Holy Spirit touch her heart, if He chooses. But nothing like what she's thinking. This was planned back before anyone knew anything about her MLC or affair. But she is on her guard, so I'm not sure what might come of this lunch.
And I'm not supposed to know what might come of this lunch, or anything else for that matter, right?
Again. THANKS OW, for planting rotten seeds in her head. Thankfully they have a full weekend of fantasy affair partner fun scheduled.
I can hardly wait till real life begins to make an appearance in their relationship... and hopefully, by then, I'll be so busy with my own life that I won't be paying attention.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
