I'm confused by this. If you pay all the bills, how can the house go into foreclosure if you move in and she leaves?
When you say getting on much better, what does that mean? You are talking about doing things she doesn't want. Of course she's going to be sweet to you to try to get you to not do them. Don't mistake niceness or peace for progress.
Because the past few months I have been paying the mortgages in lieu of child support as agreed on with our attorneys. She ran out of money 2 months ago and can't afford to pay for her attorneys and continue with the D. then the bank contacted us and warned us the foreclosure was looming this month because of the payments she missed before...
Now if she leaves the house I will be paying child support instead of the mortgage. I can't afford the mortgage and CS. She's also said I am welcomed to move back in and she'll move out but she'll go full steam with the D. So basically if I don't stay out of the house there will be no saving anything. She's bullying me and using the situation to her advantage.
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air
