Thanks everyone. The surgery went well, the surgeon was very optimistic that the surgery should do some good things for my legs, and they discharged me a day early.

Ok, I need to share a weird story about W. W and I are separated for over 2 years. And after the surgery the doctor wanted to make sure I was staying with someone for a week. I had arranged to stay with my parents,

W attended the surgery and when the surgery was over, she came up to me (and I was chock full of pain killers and other drugs) and said that for the recovery I could stay with her and the 2 youngest kids at her place (?!)

I declined her offer, saying I was staying at my parent's place. It was a nice offer that came totally out-of-the-blue. But don't think this is progress. When she posted it on FB, she referred to me as "ex-husband". crazy


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace