Yes, I'm struggling with this at the moment too. I always thought if I had a tragedy I'd throw myself into work and get through it. So much harder than I ever imagined. I can't focus. Work is suffering. Things are not good. I'm hoping that my attempts at GAL will help, but it's a struggle.
Me: early 30s Her: same M: 5+yrs T:10+yrs D (2): under 10s OM PA - Began Apr/15 A Discovered/ILYBINILWY: Start of May Removed ring: End of June