So, true. Life is really what you make of it. I also try and remember that there is always someone who has it worse than me. To me, at minimum we will save ourselves, but we also have opportunity to save M. Either way, we win. Obviously, we all want the latter. Saw a quote recently reasonated with me:

"Challenges are what makes life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful."


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015