I do have S9 though and he and I are doing the coolest project customising a paint job on a nerf gun. I don't know who's more excited me or him.
This is awesome. Totally brought a smile to my face.
You've come a long way in a short time, NDY. Stay focused on S9 and you win in the end no matter what. Good work!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
My W does that kind of thing more frequently. Stress does that. Focusing on oneself does that. MLC definitely does that. Good thing you are able to just shrug it off. Don't ding her for it. Obviously, you will probably have to bring it up, but I'd do it with a light-hearted, "I'm glad I'm not the only one who does that kind of thing."
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
Cheers D. I feel I'm in a much better place. If you have 5 minutes you should look up the customisation on u tube. It's uber cool.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
My W does that kind of thing more frequently. Stress does that. Focusing on oneself does that. MLC definitely does that. Good thing you are able to just shrug it off. Don't ding her for it. Obviously, you will probably have to bring it up, but I'd do it with a light-hearted, "I'm glad I'm not the only one who does that kind of thing."
Hey asitis. I don't plan to bring it up at all. She will wonder what happens when she picks up S9 in new clothes whiles be super excited about his nerf gun.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Hey asitis. I don't plan to bring it up at all. She will wonder what happens when she picks up S9 in new clothes whiles be super excited about his nerf gun.
Hi NDY!
Good for you...you got this!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Good on you, & great idea on the custom painted nerf gun. S9 will be the envy of his friends.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
Bob. Cheers for stopping by again. I'll pass by hour house shortly. Been busy of late (that's a good thing, right?).
Asitis. It's like what you said about playing and connecting. Yea, we've wrestled, played and now this. It was his idea but we totally followed through. And boy, what a result. If they let us put up picks you would be impressed with the results but that matters not a jot. We had fun. Real fun and it only cost me �10.
Result.
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Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
My pleasure, NDY. Yes, it's a good thing to be busy.
Cheers, my friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
I am going to work on a customized nerf gun with my boys! Awesome idea. And might get me distracted for a while. Thanks for sharing, and I am sorry for your problems. I am new here so I have no advice, just trying to learn from everyone else!
Excellent that you're having fun with S. Her fantasy is stopping her thinking rationally, but not caring for S by sending the correct amount of clothes is a struggle to deal with. I guess that was a trip to Braehead then?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
