Pink's Journey # 3 - Learning to detach

[Sotto]

Pink - good to hear from you. I've been thinking about you and missing your posts. Sounds like you have been busy with some nice things my friend..

Your H certainly sounds somewhat regretful and I think there's quite a lot of self-pity in there too. Who knows whether he's emerging from MLC? I read somewhere that if there's OW still on the scene, the replay phase is still ongoing. But I'm no expert.

As you say Pink, H says many things - but there are important things he doesn't say or do - and so it is best to keep moving forward yourself until or unless something significant changes.

The thing that worried me is how tired and sick you say you feel. Your health and the welbeing of your family are the most important things here. So if you need to take some time to recharge - please do it. This is a tough time and our sitches use up so much energy. It's important to remember that there is a whole life out there waiting to be lived. And what our H's may or may not be doing is just a tiny part of that.

Take care xx