Hi Pink. Firstly I think H is starting to come out of MLC He may not have said the right words but I think the intent is there to see I believe you have to continue to detach and live your own life At the same time your H needs you , that's very clear. Detachment will take time and D means nothing in our lives but a piece of paper.
In your post I see you still love H and I would be amazed if you didn't as your a loving person and you can't just turn that off
Give your self time to let all these feeling settle
2nd You have been a huge support to me and I often re read your posts to me as you have a way of bringing me back to the real world and letting me see that being there for EXW sometimes is the right thing to do. I understand you have enough issues with H that you don't need any further complications with an online poster that you have fallen in love with !!!!!!!
I will stop posting on your thread until my humble opinion is asked for Please know I am but a post away if you need to chat
