Thanks for the chime in, Fogg. I agree - I need to continue to be the best Ripken I can be and let the future happen as it will. Logic hasn't caught up with my heart - still.
"A's thrive on the secrecy and are built on mistrust, they just don't survive the interactions of a real relationship. If shes wanting things to move faster with him who's to say it wont put pressure on the A."
This I believe, but not necessarily in her case. Mindreading I know, but with her saying "he's a part of my life" and "I've been in a relationship for awhile" - I feel she is going to stick with OM until he drops her, if nothing else to justify WHY she's breaking up our family, marriage, etc. It has to be for something and her "relationship" is enough of a reason in her eyes.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23