In my opinion, it's ok to have some level of R talk if your W is the one that initiates it. Mostly STFU and validate. Brush up on Wonka's thread!

At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15