So my H just sent me this text

"Mt plans for the weekend have changed but not the time I will be gone. I will tell you about it tonight."

And my mind immediately goes to my H's "friend" and whether she's involved. I know, mindreading, but can't help it.

On a side note, do I refer to her as an OW even if I believe there is no PA?

Hate this stuff.

M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out