Because PROWL is the one here and the only person that we are advising. Not his WW. She too has issues their is no disputing that.
My only point is lets try to keep the discussion on him and not make this meta about other posters.
Very true..
And brining this back to Prowl, his wife is not in any way, shape or manner currently in any pain over what Prowl did or did not do 4 or 5 years ago. His prior EA is only relevant to his wayward wife to the extent she can use it to bad mouth, manipulate and/or guilt/shame Prowl to do what she says and not interfere in her corrupt behavior.
Prowl....your prior EA explains, in part, your marriage's vulnerability and susceptibility to infidelity but it doesn't excuse or justify her choices. Your wife is lost right now and needs your help (help being an active verb) versus you sitting around navel gazing bemoaning any and all your prior infractions in the marriage that she is more than happy to help you fixate on. Personally, I think paying for the house and enabling her to maintain this wayward lifestyle is probably foolhardy. I can't imagine losing the equity in you home but the way your wife is going you are probably only losing half of it (since the other half would be going to her and this lifestyle) anyway. I presume you've already stop paying for extra luxury items like cable and internet?
Don't sweat the credit problem. It's destroyed already so there is little you can do today to change it. It's gone for now but once this is over it can be rehabilitated pretty quickly . You've got bigger problems.
Can you beat the protection order and move back home? I'm guessing you had to settle and agree to leave her alone because you are in law enforcement and can't have a PO on your record. In the words of Johnny Rotten, "bollocks".
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
