Thank you LouR for all your kind words, wonderful advice and your support.

I am working hard to maintain my PMA throughout the alien moments. This is the part of my armor that has too many kinks in it right now. Plus, as you say I am the only stable parent in the home right now and they need the PMA too.

After a few days of peeking his head out (further than he has up to now) H is right back to withdrawing. I see the pattern of this cycle and am getting used to it.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced