Another question I have been struggling with today.
As I detach, GAL, don't initiate calls or texts, don't initiate conversations, etc. - how do I appear to have not given up on the relationship? Or is that the strategy? Of course my fear is that she's looking for an excuse and if she sees that I've given up, that will give her the push to give up too.
Its not that you gave up on the M, you refuse to live in an open M, and you can not control what she does ... does not mean you have to stop living. So you go out and do your thing (honoring the marriage .. living a fun life) and she does hers ... realizing you are not sitting around waiting at home like a lap dog.
Originally Posted By: t33
Also, in preparing for the worst. How do I respond if she says she wants to move out? She'll need money for it, so she'd have to ask me unless of course she moves in with a friend. My instinct would be to say NO, not yet - let's just wait things out. But I know that must not be the best response. How should one respond to something like this?
If she wants to move out .. she moves out. She put her big girl panties on to have the A, she can wear the same ones and figure out how to support herself and move out if that's what she wants.. not your job anymore .. she fired you as her H remember?
