X's sister reach out via text this morning to coordinate the picking up of X's stuff. I thought about this, and then called her. I was wondering why she was reaching out & not X. Turns out X didn't know she was calling. I then asked her how X was really doing and she told me a ton of stuff. How she didn't agree, how that impacted their relationship, how X has really been alone or on her own, and they are just starting to reconnect (she thinks). She then started to tell me the generic things, she is focused on her career, I can't understand why she didn't try to work things out, everyone deserves to be with someone that wants to be with them, etc, etc.
Life is filled with ups & downs. Need to learn from the downs & work on longer ups... I have to continue to detach & move forward.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015