Hey Cali. Ok, just real quick... For most girls... The intimacy part is waaaay more than pure physicality. The hottest part is... The guy... The connection. I can say, Cali, I've never seen you, but you got it going on. No disrespect toward your wife, but... You're good, Cali.
And for a girl who wants to hurt a guy... That's an EASY target. I get the association with Ssm and the comments... But, she feels safe with you. There is nothing better than that. That's got. Not a romp in the sheets that is momentary. Seriously, Cali.... It's gonna be something you will have to work through, for sure. I appreciate your honesty.
Just keep going; you got this. And truthfully, from a girls perspective, you've got nothing to worry about there. You will get there. Be strong, be confident, be honest, make the connection... She will feel it. And so will you.
FYI.... I get the hesitation w std thing... The parting gift. Aw, yeah.... Had check up yesterday. Boooo.... Part of my hesitation round 2.
You're good, Cali. I see lots of happiness in your future.
