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Re: Hello from south of la la land asitis #2584020 07/02/15 12:08 AM
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OP HaWho Member H Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2	I have not asked about OW, EA, PA, etc since a few days post BD #2, so around early April. As soon as I figured out it was MLC I knew it does not matter to ask. I read somewhere that MLC is like a tornado ripping through your house. You have to get to a safe place until it is over. It is dangerous to come out before it passes. And, there is not point in evaluating the damage during it as the tornado is ongoing. Best to wait, stay safe, then evaluate the damage and plan your course. This analogy is especially fitting for my sitch as MLC lives at home/never left but lives like another child. Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced

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Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/29/15 10:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/29/15 11:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Wonka	06/30/15 05:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 06:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/30/15 06:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 07:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 09:37 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 10:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Sotto	07/01/15 12:13 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/01/15 04:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Georgiabelle	07/01/15 07:06 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/01/15 08:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 02:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 07:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 12:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 01:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 03:51 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/10/15 04:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 05:19 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 05:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 05:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 06:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 06:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 10:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 11:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:24 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/11/15 07:51 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 09:36 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/11/15 12:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 11:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 06:53 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 07:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/13/15 08:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 09:16 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Rouky	07/14/15 06:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 04:45 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 05:52 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:38 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 07:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 07:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:17 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 08:31 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 09:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 10:35 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:34 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 09:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 10:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 12:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	2BHappy	07/18/15 02:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 07:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/20/15 10:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 10:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 11:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 01:25 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 05:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 05:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 10:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 04:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 07:03 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 08:05 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 09:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 12:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 02:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 09:55 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 09:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 08:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 08:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/02/15 02:22 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	LouR	07/02/15 11:39 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 03:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 04:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/01/15 08:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	asitis	07/01/15 11:44 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 12:08 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/04/15 05:38 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	claire7	07/05/15 12:04 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 12:46 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/05/15 05:01 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/06/15 12:16 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 05:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/09/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 09:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/09/15 10:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 11:01 PM

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