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[DifRent]

Fogg, you're so right. The good news is, the computer in my office where she "snoops" has absolutely no record of this site. I only access it on my laptop, and she never accesses my laptop... it's always with me. I thought too late about email and Skype... just never thought she was interested enough to check. Now that I see she was, it's a double edged sword: wish she hadn't seen it, but as Cali says, why did she bother looking? That in itself is intel worth having.

But other intel? Yeah... I don't need to see. I did go up to the computer today and logged out of everything. Our passwords for most accounts are in a book she keeps, so it's just a matter really of changing Skype and my email. No big deal, and she won't be alarmed if she tries to access anything, since she's the one who snooped. As for the joint account, there really isn't much reason for me to have access anymore. I'm glad I got the intel I have to this point, but from here on, I just need to detach and focus on me. It's so hard (as you know, Fogg), but I need to do it.