Great... now I discover, after a bit of a heated conversation on the phone, that my W has read all my Skype messages to my best friend and my mom. I shouldn't be surprised as this isn't the worst breach of trust, right? But... wow. Now she has "intel" I wish she didn't have.

Long view, long view... I have to take the long view. Because she is not someone I even remotely want right now.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19