Yesterday H said we should all go away for day; hours later said he did not want to go away. H suggested another trip (unclear if I was invited or if this was just just for him and the kids.) In a matter of 1-2 minutes he changed the plan completely at least 4 times. Then decided to do nothing! So opposite for him.
Then, I was playing a board game w/the kids and he seemed to be trying really hard to sit and the table with us all and talk. Seemed to be wrestling. He did manage to stay at the table for 10 or so minutes.
What is this wrestling all about? Does it mean anything? He notices the dog again and connects with kids more. Haven't seen this behavior yet.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
