I am sorry you are here, I don't have much to add as I am just figuring things out myself. I am 4 months into it and just starting to feel like I am not obsessing about my situation, I think it is great that you are on here so early and getting good advice. I am just at the point now where I realize that I did not cause this, and I can't fix this, but I sure can come out of this as a better person whether it is with or without him. Wishing you some peace and answers.
