Wonka, your ugly thoughts were much nicer than MY ugly thoughts...
I don't know if there is much I can DO right now that would make the OW jealous. I think my mere existence in the W's life is all it takes for her to be slightly threatened... but only slightly, because they are so much "in love." OW just wants me gone, and is coaching my W through the dissolution process. In the moment, it looks like she's winning big time. But as you and Cali have pointed out, it's a long game, and the battle has only just begun. I just need to play the game well.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
