Wonka,
Yes, I don't really have near future concrete plans yet on Retrouvaille. It is part of what I want for the future with H. I agree he might get scared right now. I didn't know that even now that he wants to work on the marriage, it is still a difficult journey. But yes, nothing is more important than this marriage and my family, so I can wait.

Thank you Wonka for your advice, as always.