All that stuff ^^^^^ spot on. Not sure how long you have been at this but yeah .. your H out on his own ... consider him a teen who just went away for college, he will contact you for the usual things .. money, laundry, maybe to make sure he is still loved. But as many have stated .. he is out doing his thing where momma Hawho can not see it.
Couple things to keep in mind .. this is his crisis, his thing .. let him figure it out, its not your journey, you have your own, do not try to make sense of it nor think if I do this or that .. he will do this or that. Just know, the MLCr expects us to be just where they left us ... on a shelf, when we move they will react usually in some way ... spew, tempcheck, touch n gos ... read a bit and then read again till you know this stuff and can use it on the fly.
Just some quick tips....
Pressure: MLCrs do not care for it in any regard, just keep that in mind.
Time: this is not going to be over in weeks, nor a month or two ... its a very long process and there is no timeline on when it will be over.
So ... all you can truly do at this point, detach, live your own life and work on you, become the best person you can possibly be .. go out and experience life.
