It seems like she tried to bait you with the whole "It would be good for the boys to see you hang out with another woman." Good job holding your tongue, that would have been tough for me to identify while it was happening. It really seems she just wanted to know if you have moved on. Hang in there.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."