Honestly I think it is under $2000 and with fees and such no more than $1500. If it comes to D I will get an accounting for it.
I have not talked to W or been on FB. I did receive a message from her that states:
"This job has had a tremendous impact on our family, I have not been a good W or mother to the children. I am sorry for not being home more, I want to change this."
Again nothing about the EA - I have not responded to this.
Normally we advise "If it's not about the kids, and doesn't ask a question, no need to respond," but this is kind of serious to just blow off without acknowledging. You don't want to be a d*ck and appear rude.
I might just wait a couple hours and then say "Yeah, this has been very difficult on all of us." or something neutral like that.