Georgia is correct...you can sit there and analyze every word or action...but there will be no rhyme or reason for what they say and why they say it. They think out loud in many instances. So what if you are packing early. You both are excited and want to get a way for a bit. Nothing says that you have to continue w/old habits all of the time.
Continue to detach and keep the focus on you and your son and your upcoming trip. Leave the man/child at home sulking.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
