MLC SEPERATED AND NO CHANGE PART 3

[Georgiabelle]

SK,

I am just catching up on your sitch. I'm not an expert, however, reading your thread made me want to chime in.

My best advice is that if you try to analyze and decipher every word, phrase or action of your h, you will literally feel insane. Put head in freezer, slam door, and repeat. Stop for your own benefit.

Who knows what he means? Try not to read too much into it. My xh used to talk about the future and "we" frequently as well and you just can't allow yourself to get wrapped up in that. In regards to the packing early, you could have just smiled, shrugged, and said "S and I are excited and just wanted to get it done" or something of the sort. You don't really owe your h an explanation and it is possible he will find fault in EVERYTHING. My xh too would say we were going to have fun without him. Then he would say he had been "traumatized" by every vacation or trip we took. You rationalize with the irrational.

Detach. Seriously. Focus on you and S. I know it's difficult although GAL is a great thing. Have a little fun. Let your h revel in his pity party.

Hang in there.