Yeah, people here have different preferences in regard to how they handle their own emotions. There are two extremes on the spectrum: help WAS move out or let them do it all on their own. There's no right or wrong answer here.
The key is that all of this creates a friction with the OW/OM and they DO become jealous. Then they issue all kinds of crazy ultimatiums.
I want to share that I have had some really ugly thoughts about Ms. Wonka's OW. I have fantasized about giving her a strong right hook or upper cut jab. Ah well....those thoughts now have disappeared. But man...the first three years were ROUGH on me.
