Thanks Matt and I agree it probably did new to be mentioned at the beginning. It is something she uses to validate her behavior and reason for wanting out of our marriage.
I hate speaking for MrBond. I'm sure I'm not doing a good job. But you said this:
Originally Posted By: Prowl
I felt horrible for having feelings for someone else and I tried to make it right. She decided to make it her personal vendetta to destroy me after she decided to step out of our marriage.
MrBond asked you what you did to try to "make it right". Apologizing is not enough. Ow did you rebuild trust? How did you rebuild intimacy? This is not a "time heals all wounds" kind of thing. If you just said "I'm sorry" a bunch, she has probably never recovered from this.
Look, I don't think anyone is saying what she's doing is right. But the fact that you didn't think that this was an important part of what was a very lengthy first post leads me to believe that you two never really got over that incident together. That extra layer really changes a lot, don't you think?
