When I write in general, I tend to not be too specific. I'm not a detailed person when it comes to telling stories, so I apologize if there was not much detail. But thank you for responding to my question anyway.
To answer your question, yes, we go to church. Even though we are/were having tough times, he would always go with me and the kids to church. I am hoping my H and I could attend a Retrouvaille someday soon. It's just hard to arrange for my parents to take care of the kids while we're away.
Thanks for reading my sitch and for giving your 2 cents!