Right - it's so obvious now that she wasn't happy (for whatever reasons that don't matter) and I tried to be some one I am not.
I am enough. If I am not the right person for her or give her what she wants and needs then OK. I am not the right person for her. But I am the right person for ME. I don't have to be criticized for NOT being the right person. She doesn't have the right to threaten me to get me to respond. I have the right to just be ME.
Yes, hard lesson learned. I am sorry for any pain that was caused.
