H informed me today that he was mad because we were going on vacation and just leaving him with nothing. I told him that he last fall told us that we should go to the lake for the 4th on vacation just me and Kael and he would stay here (this was before separation or anything)
I reminded him of this and he said "do whatever you want". So I said you never really do anything with me/or S anyway. H got really mad and said the famous "I am not doing this now" I said (and this was where I should have shut it down) where do you think we are at in this and he said "we have good days and bad days.
