The end is near

[asitis]

You seem like both you and your R are in a much better place than just a little while ago. You know all the warnings about not getting your expectations up, patience, stick to your plan, etc. Just listen & validate.

From what you've said, I don't think MC is what your W needs to help her (or you) right now. In fact, I'd say that you've got her focusing on things that are drawing her back to you a bit. No R talk, no MC that would drag up the negatives right now. Just keep being the attractive person she wants to be around, and hopefully this will change to wanting to do the tough work full of painful reminders of your problems in the not too distant future.

Keep up the good work!