Good for you Sad. I certainly don't think your W should be making assumptions about you 'supporting her' whilst OM is somewhere in the picture. I think you are quite right to put her straight on that one.
That was a good response to the counselling too. I think you are starting to find your stride here. I was concerned about your earlier posts and the 'friendly, friendly' stuff. I'm pleased to see your direction of travel now though....
Good luck :-)
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus