Wonka, I think I did read that story at some point. I surely admired the guy. Although I get it and it makes perfect sense, I would have to dig deep and set aside more than my pride for that kind of response. Right now, the W and I are in the house alone, in separate rooms, because I just can't stand to face her. Hardly best friend material - though if I had known better and could do this whole thing over since the BD, I might have taken that path and found myself in a different place emotionally today.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19