Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts, I invited W to be there so that she could take the kids. This means she will be at today's surgery around my family. Might have some fireworks, but I won't know about it b/c I'll be knocked out.

Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace